Sunday, September 30, 2012

September.... It's a wrap!



I think things are finally getting back to "normal after a rocky start to the academic year.  Hazen has been healthy, and more importantly, happy.  Cally is well into the groove of school, making friends, and really growing up right before our eyes.  John and I have been able to go to work, catch up on sleep, and get a get into a sort of groove again.

We've take a lot of afternoon hikes with the kids:


Haircuts:



 Seeing a friendship blossom by the day


 The Harvest Market...... Which involved Mom running a 5K race, Cally walking in her first parade, and John volunteering as one of the best face painters that the Poker Hill tent has ever seen!



And one of the best parts of this past weekend, was stacking wood as a family.  Six years ago, on one of my first dates with John, he somehow convinced me to stack a cord of wood with him for fun.  It actually was kind of fun.  I'd never lived in a place where wood was the primary source of heat and sort of liked the feeling of working to make a house a home.  Over the years, stacking wood has become more of a chore or something to check off our family "to do" list.  We'd try to squeeze it in when the kids napped or with headlamps on after they went to bed.  But yesterday, John and I got our wood stacking attire on and Cally put on her "wood chucking" boots (thanks, Claire) because she insisted on helping us.  At 3 1/2 years old, Cally really did help us.  She found logs that were small enough for Hazen to "chuck" into the cart, she sang songs, and both of the kids really did make stacking wood fun again.


We also went on a lovely hike up Eagle Mountain in Milton with the family of John's student, Avi, who passed away in March.  I can't even imagine the loss that they feel, but they embraced our family and we had a lovely day together. 
 


Monday, September 24, 2012

Nana and Grandpa's Impromptu Visit



It was a Tuesday night when it sunk in for John that he was going to be home solo with the kids on Saturday and Sunday.  Having not seen his parents for several months, he gave them a call and asked if they'd be interested in visiting for the weekend.  They hardly hesitated and didn't even need to confer, they were in!  While they may not be the fastest to get out of  the house in the morning, they are amazing in their willingness to jump up and visit (especially when they know they can be of help).  

A trip to the apple orchard was a must:

 

They also treated John and me to a rare mountain bike together, dinner out with Cousin Chris, and lots of snuggles and reading.  And on Monday morning, Cal was so proud to show them her school! 

 

So while Cal and Hazen hung out with their grandparents, making smores by the fire (in our new firepit), reading tons of stories, and showing off their new found interests, I was able to spend a few days camping with these lovely ladies.  Even though Cal can give me a hard time for going away, I think she actually gets how wonderful these gals our.  All I need to do is show her the alpaca blanket that many of them knit for her before she was born and she seems to understand..........


Monday, September 17, 2012

Tunbridge Fair


We made it to the Tunbridge Fair!  Having missed all the other fairs in the area and skipped this particular fair last year, we were excited to get back there!  As you can see, Cally was thrilled to get on a pony again, but Hazen wasn't all that into it.  He opted to hang out with his special Auntie, Cara, instead of sitting on a moving beast of burden...


Both of the kids got to enjoy a few spins on the carousel:



We even got to ride the Ferris Wheel with Uncle Scotty and Aunt Cynthia:


And Cal was finally big enough to go on the small people rides all by herself.  She loved the mini roller coaster:

 


  The real fun was seeing all the animals....... Hazen loved watching the 4H kids show their sheep:

And Cal was pretty into the maple cotton candy:




Highlights have been a visit to the Tunbridge Worlds Fair:





Sunday, September 16, 2012

Sicko



 Life is full of surprises and challenges.  And they don't always time themselves in the best way.

Hazen started getting sick on the second day that school started this year.  It seemed like a regular old cough, but it turned kind of ugly, quickly.  By Saturday, he sounded croupy and wheezy (but now I know the technical term for his sounds is strider), but did not have a fever.  So, we went ahead with business as usual (going on a hike, attending a few parties.......), but did consult Dr. Parker about his condition and contagiousness and he said it sounded like a version of a virus floating around and if we were outside, we shouldn't worry about him being contagious.

By Monday, Hazen had a fever.  Because of his history of ear infections, we brought him in to see Dr. Parker on Tuesday.  He checked his ears and lungs and said they were both clear.  But, his fever didn't go away-- though it wasn't all that high.  By Friday, the fever was still persisting and I kept him home from day care to bring him to the doctor (I had called again on Thursday, but they said this "virus" lingers for 9-10 days, but if he still had a fever on Friday I should bring him in).  At this appointment, Dr. Parker confirmed what I suspected, that Hazen had pneumonia.  We got him on amoxycillian right away and hoped for the best.

Dr. Parker had warned us that his temperature might spike a day or two after taking the antibiotic as a result of the bacteria dying off and the body responding.  So, when he got a fever of 102.5 on Saturday evening, we didn't think that much of it.  However, when he got up 4 or 5 times that night fussing, I had a sense that something was wrong.  By Sunday I mentioned to John that he seemed to have really fast respirations.   I looked up what a toddler's respirations should be (20-30/min) and a list of signs of respiration difficulty (flared nostrils, discolored skin, and muscle retraction in his ribs). I never could get a watch out and count his breathing rate as he squirmed around and/or Cally was around, but I did check the other signs and felt like he checked out all right.  Also, during the day he didn't seem that off.  He was playing, a bit clingy, but otherwise seemed all right.

He slept through the night on Sunday, but still had a fever.  I finally took the time to count his respirations while he lay on my chest and he was at 48/min. We immediately called Dr. Parker and he asked us to come into the office once he returned from rounds at the hospital.  I went off to school for the morning and the plan was for John to take Hazey to the doctor and I'd come home after teaching at 11:30.

I got a call in my classroom at 10:20 from John saying that he was on the way to the hospital.  Dr. Parker wanted him to get a chest x-ray and a pulse oximeter reading.  His reading at the office was in the mid 80's and he wasn't comfortable with that.  He mentioned that there was a chance Hazen would be admitted to the hospital.

My heart sank.  I was in the middle of teaching a class and I couldn't be there anymore.  I immediately called for a sub and then ran to the new technology integration specialist and asked him to take over my class (because a sub wouldn't necessarily know a thing about Google docs and all that).

All I wanted was to be there for Mr. H.  I felt so horrible for not realizing he was struggling to get oxygen all weekend.  I just wanted to turn back time.

Of course, I arrived at radiology to find a happy little guy running around and playing with John, as if nothing was wrong......... We got an x-ray, which didn't reveal a whole lot, and then headed to the ER because that is the only place in the hospital to get a pulse oximeter reading.  Sure enough, he was still in the 80's and no one likes to see that.  "They" want it above 90.

Hazen was given a dose of albuterol with a nebulizer.  They hoped that the steroid would open his bronchi and that would be the end of it.  Besides freaking him out in a way I'd never seen him freak out, it did nothing.  So from that point further, we had to get oxygen into him using a mask (which he hated).  Becasue he wasn't able to keep is oxygen up, he earned himself a night in the Pediatric ward.  This also meant he had to get an IV put in (for fluids and antibiotics).


 The Vermont Children's Hospital is an amazing place.  The nurses, doctors, medical students, residents, social workers and volunteers do a wonderful job making you feel as comfortable as you can while you are there.  We were only there for 24 hours, but I really appreciated everything about that place.

Don't get me wrong, it certainly was not comfortable or fun.  Hazen had to sleep in a crib that was more like a cage-- with a nasal cannula tube, and IV tube, and a monitor stuck to his toe.  I got to sleep on the red chair pictured above, but turned into a cot.  The lighting is awful and the temperature is always wrong.  But these people who work there made it all that much more tolerable. 



Sunday, September 9, 2012

First Day of School


Cally started at Poker Hill School on Wednesday.  She has been asking about and wondering about Poker Hill for what seems like a year.  She was so excited to go to this magical place!

John dropped her off and she seemed at ease from the moment she walked in.  She signed up to be "music retriever" (her job for the day) and jumped into a drawing project.  I picked her up to find her happy and comfortable in her new school with lots of new friends and stories to tell.

What she was most excited about was getting to take Poley Poley home for the night.  He's her groups "mascot" and she was the first to volunteer to take care of him for a few days.  I guess she gets to take him on adventures and then write/draw about them in his journal.

Cal decided to take him on our regular family hike in the Upper Pastures:


And to our magic rock:


I hear about kids having a rough transition to new schools, but am so happy to report that hers was smooth sailing.  I wish there had been a place like Poker Hill when I was a kid!

We wrapped up Cally's first week of school with some good family time in Burlington.


And spent some time on the bike path with my good friend Christine who was in town from California for a wedding:



Sunday, September 2, 2012

A Great Day for a Hike


We did it!  We finally got to the top of Vermont to scatter Zola's ashes (my beloved dog who died six months before Cally was born).  It was the last hike she had done before she got sick and it's something I've wanted to do as a family for some time.  We actually attempted this mission last year, but it just didn't work out.  So, when our friends Amy and Anton (and their son Henry) mentioned that they were hiking up Mt. Mansfield on Labor Day, we jumped at the opportunity to go for a hike on a gorgeous day.







 It was a perfect day and a perfect way to celebrate the end of summer and the end of a great dog's life!